In theory, the truth sets one free

[ladycaviar]

Have your say.

ladycaviar's johari window
ladycaviar's nohari window.

Comments

[rlg.livejournal.com]

... it didn't list "fierce"

I love you.

[ladycaviar.livejournal.com]

Hey, it's some form of standard test. LOL, I guess "fierce" doesn't come up often enough to be standardized...

[melvh.livejournal.com]

Well, I added my two cents to the johari window, but they wouldn't let me trigger the nohari window --I couldn't pick at least five words. Besides, the nohari things says "brash" & "chaotic" like they're bad things....

[ladycaviar.livejournal.com]

hrm. That's the link it gave me, don't know what to tell you. Pff. crappy damn thing... and love your take on things. I notice much of the good is just a different rephrasing of the "bad."

[melvh.livejournal.com]

I think it's because I could only come up with three or four words, and I had to pick at least five. I can go back and try it again....

[rlg.livejournal.com]

I noticed that too ... loud isn't a bad thing, is it?

Note on the Nohari window

[johnomar915.livejournal.com]

A couple of the things I checked here I do not view as negatives. I really appreciate the way you can undulge your more childish side and wish others could too.

Re: Note on the Nohari window

[ladycaviar.livejournal.com]

Traditionally, linguists like "childlike" as the "good" one, and leave "childish" as the pejorative one. But yes, I can has crayons, and I wish more people would share with us, too.

Re: Note on the Nohari window

[johnomar915.livejournal.com]

Ummm yes, I can see that. Please read my childish and childlike :-)

Love ya Bro.

[(Anonymous)]

Also have to say that looking at my johari and nohari pages I'm alittle surprised and how I am perceived. It gives me an idea of some things that I want to work on, or at least do some additional self examination on.

eh

[ladycaviar.livejournal.com]

sometimes we have to fish for something, anything, because those words just don't apply. But if you have a gut feeling, I'm not going to stop you, because LJ didn't log you in. I can assume who this is and be confident in that, or I can be encouraging the serial killers on my blog, I don't know. ;)

Re: eh

[johnomar915.livejournal.com]

Don't know why LJ didn't log me in on that last comment. It was mine.

To me the whole johari/nohari excersize is to test my perceptions of myself with how others perceive me. I got surprised both ways.

From Rhys.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I agree...there were so many words from the Johari list I could use, but I REALLY had to stretch to make the Nohari list more than 2. But I didn't back down, and I didn't sign it anonymously. :)

And agree with some of the others...loud is not bad. I just wish I were louder and sometimes spoke the hell up a lot more often. And not just in SCA experiences. I guess in my own Nohari list I would have to list "afraid" or "overly self-conscious". I'll work on that. :) --Rhys.